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December 10, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Skokka Review : No Good, Stay Away From It…

I know not all my readers are from good old ‘Merica, which is awesome by the way, so some of you are using or have questions about dating sites that we in the U.S. don’t have access to. One of these sites is called Skokka. Skokka describes itself as an “Adult Dating Reference” site, which to me, is a red flag.

If you’re considering using Skokka, here’s what you need to know.

Skokka.com

My Review of Skokka

Here’s what you need to know about this escort site…

Where Can I Use Skokka?

As I mentioned, Skokka isn’t really available for men here in the United States. There is probably a very good reason for that and while I can’t prove it, I suspect it’s because this “Adult Dating Reference” is a site for prostitution.

Yes, when you log in to using the site, they give you some warning that there is not to be any exchange of money for sex, but just because they say it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I mean, even escort sites here in the U.S. say the same thing but we all know what’s going on there.

The Feds in the U.S. have really started stomping out escort sites, remember Backpage and the personals section of Craigslist? So, that means finding legit (I guess) escort sites anymore is just not easy here at home.

If you want to use Skokka, you’re going to live in one of these countries:

Spain
Argentina
Bolivia
Columbia
Mexico
Peru
Chile
Dominican Republic
Guatemala
Australia
Brazil
Costa Rica
Ecuador
Italy
Panama
Venezuela
Uruguay
Paraguay
Singapore
Switzerland
India
United Kingdom
Netherland
Germany

So, as you can see, Skokka is pretty much available in Europe and South America, where I suspect prostitution is not as heavily regulated as it is here.

Now, you know I don’t like the use of escorts, prostitutes, or street girls. It’s really no secret that all of my dates are women who are interested in sex and they don’t expect me to pay them for it. I think it is something that is just too risky, no matter what country you’re in.

And I think it is especially risky in countries you’re not familiar with, which is why I would never recommend any of my American brothers or sisters to use Skokka if they are traveling to these countries. You’re in a strange country, the escort knows it, and you become a huge target for violence of some sort.

Skokka: A Backpage Alternative?

When Skokka was released, it was touted as the next great Backpage alternative. I’m not sure why they would want to tout that, but hey, blow your horn if you must.

You see, Backpage wasn’t a great site either and because of the shady dealings it was involved in (um, prostitution and sex trafficking), it was completely shut down and seized by the Feds.

I’m not making this up, you can search the old interwebs and see for yourself. In my humble opinion, the closing down of the Backpage site was long overdue. Now, the personals section of Craigslist, well that was a hard one to take for someone like me who enjoys quick and easy hookups with other like-minded lady individuals.

Back to Skokka. They claim to be a top escort site. They are not.

The only thing you’re going to see when you start using Skokka is a bunch of thumbnail pictures of T&A and profiles of women who will supposedly meet you for sex. For a price.

The thing is, the women are not vetted, so you don’t know if these are real women or if the ads are fakes. You don’t know if the person you contact will be the person who will show up to your place. For all you know, a guy will show up that is going to beat the living crud out of you and rob you…or worse.

And if you’re someone looking to have hookups, free sex, or you even want to have vanilla, legit dates, you’re not going to find it on Skokka. This is totally a pay-for-sex site and has nothing to offer those of us that aren’t about breaking the law.

Ridiculous Ads Everywhere

I actually enjoyed spending time reading the ads on Skokka, mostly for their comic content. I suspect that the majority of the ads are fake because they seem like men wrote them.

Here is what I mean:

New Girl-Susie-learning-super wet-willing to please-Korean Air Hostess

Susie-Service your lollipop with air hostess from Korea

Height: 162

Bra: D

Body: Firm soft curves

Age: 22

Nationality: Korean

Air hostess touring Australia this week-Canberra

Rates from $220 per hour (discounts before 6pm)- full detail at lollipoplounge.com.au

Susie is new arrival, young, hot friendly girl. She wants to learn more with nice gentleman caller.

Treat her nice and she will make you her King and Master.

Try fresh, try now-see her today!

She is waiting for you.

Come say hello-lots of lovely girls waiting to treat you like never before!

Skokka Escort Listings

That just screams two things to me. First, a guy wrote that because that’s what he thinks men would want, and two, kinda creepy. I don’t know, but it almost seems like they’re hawking her.

I don’t know Susie and I don’t know if this is something she even wants to be doing, but I do know that if I was in Canberra I wouldn’t be looking her up. I’m just getting a “sex trafficking” vibe here.

Even if Susie and the other ladies of Skokka are all totally legit and totally into having sex for money, can you imagine how much money you’re going to be spending, even with the discount?

With so many good hookup and fuck dating sites on the web, there is absolutely no reason to pay for sex anymore. There are always horny women looking for horny men and the only thing you have to pay for is the fee for the dating site and maybe a drink or meal before you two bang your brains out. It certainly won’t cost you $220 an hour!

The Verdict on Skokka: Not Made for the Casual Dater

If you’re in South America, the U.K., Australia, or you’re looking to travel to those areas, Skokka is not going to be the site you want to use for free hookups. While trying to mask itself as something legit, Skokka is nothing but a site used for paid sex that may or may not be involved in some shady dealings.

If it were me, I would avoid Skokka and focus on one of the many good hookup sites out there, many of them have international versions so you can get busy no matter where you are in the world.

December 9, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Tryst Link Review : Escort Listings To Avoid

I came across this Tryst.Link website and had to share my thoughts on it all. I haven’t been too friendly when it comes to escort sites and I don’t intend on becoming so anytime soon. That’s the honest truth too.

In fact, it’s no secret that I’m not a huge fan of using paid sex workers for an hour or so of a good time. I think it’s legit just too risky and those are risks I don’t want to take. Now, I really try my hardest never to judge anyone else, but I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t remind my readers just why it’s a bad idea to use escorts, prostitutes, streetwalkers, or other sex workers.

Here goes nothin…literally…

Tryst Escorts Review

First, it’s illegal. Yep, I know some readers are going to hit me with the whole, “But, but, but, Nevada.”

Hey, if you want to legally find yourself a prostitute, go for it in Nevada. Those girls at the Bunny Ranch are tested for STD’s, you have rules to follow, and everyone gets their jollies in a safe and secure way. I’m totally for that.

What I’m not cool with are the risks that come with paying a complete stranger, who gets paid to pleasure many men and may not do so cleanly. Sorry folks, but the last thing I want is to get something that will either need some strong antibiotics to get rid of or won’t go away and could kill me.

That doesn’t even begin to cover the other things that could happen, including getting robbed, getting ripped off, being beaten up by a pimp (or one tough prostitute), or getting caught up in some legal troubles that could totally ruin my reputation and career.

Now, some guys will say, “I don’t use prostitutes, I use escorts.” Um, same thing, my bros. Same thing.

Still illegal and still risky and still something I see as a complete and total waste of money. Especially when you can use dating apps to find women who are into open relationships, friends-with-benefits situations, and hookups that cost you no more than the price of the dating app or site.

However, I did mention that I don’t judge and really, I don’t. If you want to take the risks of using an escort, that’s your adult decision.

So, what is the point of this post, you may ask. The point is I have a friend who asked me to take a look at the site Tryst.Link and see what I think. I do all my reviews of all dating sites (even the free ones), including escort sites, with an open mind, so I thought I would give it a look.

Before you decide to use Tryst.Link, take a look at this review to see if it is worth your time.

What is Tryst Link?

I will admit, I never heard of Tryst.Link. When I first heard the name, I was thinking it was strictly for hookups, but instead it’s a site that was created to cater to the needs of all sex workers, male and female included. They claim they offer a good way for escorts to advertise, fair prices on their services, and protect escorts from dealing with dangerous pimps.

When I looked at Tryst, it reminded me very much of Backpage, that escort and prostitute site that was seized by the Feds and shut down in 2018 because of recent sex trafficking legislation that was passed.

Using The Tryst Site

Once I logged on to Tryst.Link, I noticed things looked pretty good. The site itself looked professional, which is a good sign.

Unfortunately, the good things ended there.

I noticed that there were very few escort postings, just around 450 total for the whole site. For an escort site that advertises that you can find an escort worldwide, that doesn’t bode very well.

Because of this low number, Tryst.Link offers very cheap rates to join and gives you six months free. This isn’t a good sign because they know things aren’t going well and they’re doing anything they can to drum up some interest.

If you decide to do a search as someone looking for an escort, you can search by physical characteristics, location, and other parameters depending on what you like. Just don’t hold your breath, with so few options you’re probably not going to find anyone local to meet up with.

Costs of Using

For an escort to post on Tryst.Link, there are three levels. Each level comes with its own unique benefits for the escort. The levels include:

Basic-$39; Includes-1 upcoming tour, 8 photo uploads, 1 live photo, no personal domain, 2-year profile analytics, up to five partners, no photo verification, no videos
Standard-$69; Includes-5 upcoming tours, 16 photo uploads, 2 live photos, personal domain, 4-year profile analytics, 14-day advanced analytics, up to 55 partners, photo verification, 1 video
Premium-$119; Includes-Unlimited upcoming tours, 24 photo uploads, 5 live photos, personal domain, unlimited profile analytics, 14-day advanced analytics, unlimited partners, photo verification, 5 videos

If Tryst provides everything it claims, it could be a very good way for an escort to advertise and get business in a safe manner. But remember, with the new laws on the books regarding sex trafficking, it is still possible to get busted for sex work online, so be careful…

If you’re a John looking for an escort on Tryst.Link, here is what it could cost you:

60-minutes: $410.16
90-minutes: $546.88
2-hours: $683.60
Dinner date (2-hours social and 2-hours private): $888.68
3-hours: $957.04
Overnight (14 hours with mandatory 6-hour beauty sleep): $2,187.52
Additional hour: $273.44/hour

So, as you can see, not only are there very few escorts on Tryst, it will cost you a small fortune if you do so happen to get one that is local and willing to meet up with you.

My Verdict on Tryst Site & Escorts

I wasn’t expecting to actually like an escort site, but I think Tryst.Link has some potential. If a site can keep escorts safe, give John’s what they want, and everyone is A-OK with it, great. I do think that Tryst.Link just doesn’t have the traffic to make happen what it promises, though.

If this site can attract more escorts that 453 total for the entire world and it keeps the rates affordable for escorts to set up ads, I’m pretty sure that most John’s will overlook the steep prices they’ll have to pay for sex.

For now, I think I’d avoid Tryst escorts, there just isn’t enough happening there to make it worth your time.

December 11, 2018 by Frankie Moretti 2 Comments

What is a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby?

I love myself some sugar babies. Whether you’re on the hunt for a sugar daddy or sugar baby, I’ve got you covered 100% here with all the facts about it. Based on what I know, there are lots of CEOs and executives that are playing the sugar daddy and sugar momma role. Find out what this entails.

Everything You Need To Know About Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Lifestyles

The term sugar daddy and baby is very popular in pop culture, but it often has a lot of negative connotations. That is because people don’t truly understand the connection between a sugar daddy and his sugar baby. Unlike what people may think, this relationship dynamic is very common and is based on respect and honesty, much like any other relationship. The difference is, it is obvious from the get go that money is an explicit component from which the very basis of the relationship is founded.

Often a sugar daddy is an older, well off man, who has a younger companion who is unable to afford this same lifestyle on their own. These men are often too busy for a traditional relationship and don’t have the time for typical dating norms, so creating a relationship that’s based on finances is convenient.

Who’s It For?

If you don’t have money to burn, then being a sugar daddy is not for you. Women who want sugar daddies are expensive. If you want a beautiful, feminine woman by your side at all times, you have to understand that there is a certain level of upkeep that comes with that. The woman spends money on getting her hair, nails, and waxing done, and often does these things on a weekly basis. Spending money on hair and skincare routines is the most basic component of being a sugar daddy. If you don’t intend on covering these costs at a minimum, you will be unable to find a suitable sugar baby.

Gifts Galore

Once this is out of the way, the maintenance budget will shift to clothes, so that she has something nice to wear when you go out. Going out is a central component of being a sugar daddy. If you are a sugar daddy, you live a certain lifestyle where you want to be in places that you can be seen with a beautiful woman.

You want a woman to take out to dinners, engage with culture, and go on vacation with. All of these things cost money, so the best sugar daddies prove that up front providing this lifestyle is easy for them and doesn’t affect their pocket. When you’re able to do these things, the inherent agreement is that other dynamics of the relationship are dictated by the sugar daddy.

Not All Just Sex For Money

While this seems to suggest sexual favors, the sugar daddy-baby relationship is not entirely like one you would have with an escort. With a sugar daddy, the expectation is that this is a long term arrangement, that allows for monthly allowances, gifts, and time spent together that is not sexual. However, it is implicit that the sugar daddy expects that his sexual preferences are met as a prerequisite to the arrangement.

In this way, sugar daddies are more men who are looking for an on demand girlfriend who does not require the typical day to day attention that monogamy requires, and replaces time spent with money spent. No matter the dynamics, a sugar daddy demands, the universal agreement is that spending money is much more valuable than spending time and that the sugar baby has no issue with this.

If you’re looking to have some fun and play this role, then you might want to check out Seeking.com aka SeekingArrangement.com. You can also just try this site here that’s notorious for putting together hook up connections.