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July 20, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Dirty Tinder Review: Do Not Use This!

I know I covered the Sinder apps recently, but I also wanted to cover the Dirty Tinder app and site as well. Trust me, I hate reporting bad news to you, so when I do, you know it’s really bad. If you’ve spent any time on Tinder, you probably know that it is nowhere near good in the world of the hookup. The majority of the people using Tinder are either fakes looking to have their funny profile recognized on other sites, or they’re legit users looking for a relationship. I’ve covered quite a bit here in this review, so take the time to read it, please. It just might save you lots of money and time.

screenshot of Dirty Tinder

The Dirty Tinder Review

I’m not against relationships, per se, but I know for me, I’m not really ready to be tied down to one person. So, where does that leave us if we’re looking for something more casual?

Well, if you’re a casual dater, or you are totally into the hookup culture, you may be tempted to give a site I recently stumbled across a try. Dirty Tinder is supposedly the, well, the dirty Tinder.

Duh.

But, is it really? Is it really the naughty Tinder? Will you really find the sexual encounters you’ve been hoping for on Tinder but never really found?

Well, if you’re curious about these answers, you need to keep reading to find out what I think about Dirty Tinder and other similar sites that play off desperate horny men and the name and popularity of Tinder.

Full Disclosure on Dirty Tinder

Before I begin a review of why I don’t like Dirty Tinder and its clones, I have to be totally upfront and honest with you.

Dirty Tinder is in no way affiliated with the original site, Tinder. Taking a popular site’s name and switching it up, adding a “.co”, or slapping some extra sexy words into the address is nothing new in the dating site world and I’m sure you’ve seen it before with sites like Fuckbook and Snapsext.

I’m not going to discuss if those sites are good or not, but what I do want you to know is that if you see a site with a name based off of a popular site or app, 99.999% of the time they are not affiliated with the original. These names are just marketing tools to get you to join and while their site may be great, they are only playing on your libido and your prior knowledge of the social media sites they’re named after.

Ok, ok, enough of my soapboxing and back to reviewing Dirty Tinder and why I think it, and its clones, are sites that are not worth your time.

5 Reasons Why Dirty Tinder, and Other Similar Sites, Are Bogus

I’ve been around the dating site block, so I know what to look for in a fraudulent site. But, not everyone is as woke as I am in the world of adult dating. If you’ve never used a dating site before, or you’re someone who has and is curious about why Dirty Tinder gets a thumbs down, keep reading.

Obnoxious Page Tactics

When you search out Tinder on the internet, the first thing you’ll probably see is a link to Tinder and then some links to “Tinder-like” sites that you might think are legit. In fact, if you click on Dirty Tinder or any site that is supposedly like Tinder, you’re going to see the Tinder logo and probably think, “This is legit.”

Friends, these sites are playing on the fact that once you see that logo, you believe you’re seeing the real deal. Trust me, this is not Tinder and has nothing to do with it.

Secondly, Dirty Tinder, and the other sites, like to put a timer on their pages to make you think you’re running out of time to join.

Let me make sure you understand this fact: No business will ever limit the amount of time they have to take your money.

The only reason they use those clocks is to instill a sense of urgency into you. If at any time you want to join Dirty Tinder, they’ll take your money, believe me.

Co. plays dirty tricks

Once you land on DirtyTinder.co, which is another site managed under the GoTinder.com brand, you’re going to see pictures of supposed female members scrolling by. They want you to believe the site is just hopping with local horny women who want to get into your pants, but that’s just simply not true.

DirtyTinder.co steals pictures of women from other dating sites and uses them to lure you in. You will never meet these women on DirtyTinder.co and you’ll really be lucky if you meet any woman while using DirtyTinder.co.

Redirecting to another fake site, SexBadoo

The homepage of Dirty Tinder looks legitimate. It looks like a sexy dating site that you would want to join. The site is hoping that this realness makes you click on “Enter Dirty Tinder” and that you’ll answer the questions they have for you.

Once you make that click, you’re going to be redirected to yet another fake site called SexBadoo. SexBadoo is just like Dirty Tinder in that it plays off of a popular site called Badoo but has absolutely nothing to do with the original. Once there, you’re going to be hit with yet more questions about your sexual preferences and if you’ll use condoms.

Truthfully, these redirects are nothing but frustrating and obnoxious.

More redirects.

If the first redirect wasn’t enough, get ready for more. When I tried to get through the mess of ridiculous and obviously fake questions, I was once again redirected to another site. For me it was QuickFlirt.com, but it may vary for you depending on who Dirty Tinder has partnered with.

QuickFlirt.com is a dating site that uses naked ladies to make you join and once you’re a member they can replicate your profile to use on any of the other sites they manage, essentially using your likeness to catfish other men.

Fake Dirty Tinder reviews.

Dirty Tinder, DirtyTinder.co, and other fraudulent sites will often post reviews from supposedly real members that are just glowing in their appreciation for what the site helped them accomplish.

Do not let these seemingly real folks fool you, the pictures are nothing but stock photos and the reviews are posted by employees of their respective dating companies. Nothing that is posted is real.

Final Thoughts

I hate being ripped off and I know you do too. Fortunately for me, I know what to watch out for when I am considering any dating site. Unfortunately for many men, they think more with the brain in their pants and less with the one on their shoulders.

If you want a quick hookup (for free), you’re probably not going to give the original Tinder any of your time. But, if you’re looking for real contact with anyone at all, like ever, you’re definitely not going to want to give Dirty Tinder, DirtyTinder.co, SexBadoo, or QuickFlirt.com even one second out of your day.

All of these sites are a complete and total waste of time and the only thing you’ll get by using them is a headache. And, isn’t that something we’re trying to avoid by not having a full relationship? (Kidding ladies, you don’t always give us guys a headache. Most of the time.)

Do yourself a solid and give this bad larry a shot here before all others.

July 20, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Sinder App Reviews: Which Are Worth Joining?

Everyone knows all about the dating app Tinder. If you don’t know about it, ask your grandma because even she knows what it’s about. Millions of people have given Tinder a try for dating. But what if you’re looking for something a little less “date” and a little more “sex”? If that’s the boat you’re in, you’re probably going to be disappointed when you use Tinder. You’re looking for a Sinder app, not a Tinder app!

Sinder App

Sinder apps were created for those of us who don’t want a relationship but instead want to have access to other people looking to get busy. Yep, you read that right. Sinder apps, which are a collection of sex apps similar to Tinder, are created for the casual, adult dater who is only looking for sexual encounters and none of the bravado that comes with dating.

So, how do you know which Sinder apps are worth your time and will actually get you laid? It can be confusing for sure, but luckily for you I’ve found six of the best Sinder apps on the market that you’re going to want to check out.

7 of the Best Sinder Apps on the Market

Sinder is a play on “sin” and “Tinder”, but don’t let the cutesy name make you think these aren’t serious apps for getting laid. I have tried these six apps and I assure you I would not recommend anything that hasn’t worked for me. If you’re ready to get more ladies than you can handle, consider trying out one, or more, of these Sinder Apps.

Bumble

Bumble calls itself a social networking and dating app, which sounds reminiscent of Facebook or LinkedIn, but I promise you, the only social networking I found was horny folks looking to get busy.

Bumble is kind of unique in that the women, if it’s a heterosexual relationship they’re after, do all the contacting on the site. This means women need to be the Alpha and do the chasing, which is both unique and refreshing.

The only downfall of Bumble is that some women are really shy about making the first move, so you may not get as many contacts initially as you’d like, but don’t let that drive you away. If you need sex quicker, I say get Bumble in addition to another Sinder app and eventually you’ll be swarming in ladies.

Snapsext

I love Snapsext. It is probably one of my favorite Sinder apps that has ever been created and is something I recommend to all my buddies when they’re in a sex drought.

Snapsext is a mash-up of Snapchat and Tinder, but without the fear of being banned because you like sharing pictures of your ahem, goods. The people of Snapsext are there for a dirty good time and let me tell you, the women I’ve shared pics with are smokin’ hot.

As for sexual encounters, those have always been crazy too, so if you’re looking for someone that is willing to join you for fun times in the bedroom without any strings, then Snapsext is definitely a Sinder app you need to try out.

Happn

Happn is a very different app and instead of being a proper dating site, it is more of a GPS type of thing that lets you know what other users of Happn have crossed your path in a day. I know it sounds strange, but for me, it has matched me up with some women I probably wouldn’t have found or considered otherwise.

The main problem with Happn is that you really need to live in a larger city for it to work. My friends living in small towns and out in the boonies aren’t going to be as successful as my big city fam, so unless you’re in a pretty big and bustling town, you might want to avoid using Happn.

Fling

Fling is fire and the OG of Sinder apps and guess what? It still works! Fling doesn’t disguise itself as a relationship site, instead, it is for people who want nothing more than a quickie fling, hence the name.

Fling has a great search feature that lets you really personalize the type of women you are talking to.

So, if you like blondes into BDSM, you’ll be able to search for it. Or, maybe you want a couple looking for a third to play with. You can check out those couples too.

Honestly, whatever you want in the bedroom, barring anything totally illegal, you’re probably going to find it on Fling.

One thing you definitely need to know about Fling is that you are only going to have success if you upgrade your membership to a paid member. It is free to join, but free memberships don’t have much success in my experience. If you can spare a few bucks a month, you’ll be pleased with Fling, I know I continue to be.

Sweatt

If you’re one of my New York City peeps, and you’re into fit girls, Sweatt might be of interest to you. Sweatt is a Sinder app that connects those of us who are way into fitness and abs and less into eating cake in our undies every night after work. (Don’t judge me, I got my life under control now).

Sweatt uses a question and answer format to match you with someone of similar interests and trust me, you need to be the type of guy that lives the fitness lifestyle because these women all do. They legit won’t give you the time of day if you’re not swole, so don’t even bother if you’ve got a beer gut.

The Grade

I’ve saved The Grade for last for a few reasons. First, it did work for me, I will give it that. I had some very hot encounters on a few occasions, so it was worth my time in getting it and using it as a Sinder app.

What I didn’t really enjoy is The Grade’s algorithm.

Wait, what the eff am I talking about, right?

The algorithm on The Grade is there to weed out the less desirable members and the ones who aren’t serious about using the app. But, it also grades you on your behavior while using the app and if you’re someone who likes to talk dirty before you meet someone, you’re going to get dinged for it. Guess what that means.

That means you don’t get a passing grade. (That’s where their name comes from, by the way. Just in case you didn’t know).

All-in-all, The Grade isn’t terrible but might be more for a guy who acts more “vanilla” than I tend to on sex apps.

Fuckbook

I couldn’t leave without talking about the original Fuckbook app. This one is lights out and works quite well if you’re looking to just fuck. However, if you’re looking for something more traditional like a normal Tinder love of some sort, then you’re out of luck buddy.

Final Thoughts on Sinder Apps

Dating sites are great if you’re looking to date. If you’re like me and you’re not looking to be tied down right now (at least not in the traditional sense), then you should definitely consider Sinder apps for matching up with like-minded women. Give a few of these apps a try, stay active on them, and I can pretty much guarantee that you’re going to have the time of your life.

July 17, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Private Delights Review: An Escort Site Report

There’s a lot to say about people that only use escort sites. Not that I’m here to judge by any means, but there are some things to be said about them. There are LOTS of people here in New York City that prefer hiring hookers versus dating. However, I’m not one of those people. At any rate, I’ve spent some time reviewing a site that I came across recently called Private Delights. This is one of those escort directories that I suggest avoiding. Don’t take my word for it just yet though. Instead, you need to read this review to learn all about it. This explains everything…

screenshot of Private Delights

My Review of Private Delights

I’ve visited a lot of dating sites in my “dating” years and some of those sites have included escort sites. Now, I know my feelings on hiring escorts and I’m sure you have your own ideas on that as well. Whatever your feelings on escorts, prostitutes, streetwalkers, whatever you want to call them, the fact remains that they are still pretty much illegal in most of the United States.

Look, you’ve got to do what is right for you. And if you decide that paying for sex is what is going to work for you, you’ll probably want to know what sites are worth your time and which ones aren’t. That’s why I decided to check out Private Delights, a Swedish escort site that has spread its reach to the U.S.

If you’re considering using PrivateDelights.ch to find a date for a few hours, you’re going to want to read this review first.

What Is Private Delights?

Private Delights, or PrivateDelights.ch which is the official web address, is an escort site, plain and simple. This site was created to connect prostitutes with Johns, nothing more, nothing less.

Depending on who you are, there are two different versions of PrivateDelights. If you’re a woman offering her services your site will be a touch different than the site for the John’s looking for some quick and easy loving. Each of you will be screened before you are permitted to use the site, though, so be ready to answer some questions about yourself and what you’re looking for.

This is a pretty small escort site compared to others I’ve seen, with only around 300 escort profiles listed. If you’re not in a major city in the U.S., you’re probably not going to have much success with Private Delights, to be honest. The profiles I saw were mostly linked to major cities (like mine) where there were more men looking for sex, so keep that in mind if you sign up.

Joining The Site

Since I’m mostly focused on helping other men looking for sex, I’ll focus more on joining as a John and not a prostitute. If you’re a sex worker looking to join Private Delights, you can find out what you have to do through the site itself.

Once you’ve decided that you want to join Private Delights to hire a sex worker, and you’ve passed the initial screening, you’re going to want to create a biography. Now, this is where you need to be very careful, my friends.

Please, if you’re going to join an escort site, you need to use some common sense. Do not put in an email address that is directly linked to you, like a work email (I hate that I have to say this) and consider getting a totally separate phone number if that’s how you plan to be contacted. I’m not trying to harp on this, but with prostitution being illegal in most places, if you are linked to a prostitution site, you do run the risk of being caught up in a bust. So, whatever you do, don’t use widely available ways to contact you.

Once you have a biography up, that’s when the escorts can see that you’re there and they can then contact you. If you don’t include a biography, you’re pretty much invisible, so make sure you take a little time to do this step.

the terms

The Escorts

I’m pretty critical of the women I’ve seen on other escort sites like SkipTheGames.com and even RubMaps.com. Normally, these women look almost “too good to be true” or “too perfect” to be real. The reason is that most escort sites are completely fake, and they rip pictures and profiles from other sites and post them to theirs, which is just deceitful if you ask me.

The women of Private Delights, though a small number, appear to be legit. They’re not “too pretty” or “too perfect” to be believable. Not that they look like guttersnipes, that’s not true at all.

In fact, many of the escorts on Private Delights were in the range of normal to cute to sexy and none of them gave me pause, so I believe these women to be real and legit escorts that will be the women who show up at your door.

If you’re looking for a specific type of woman, Private Delights seems to have a wide variety available to choose from. Curvy, thin, blonde, brunette, they’re all there. And, it looks like there are enough of them into doing everything from vanilla sex up through various kinks, so whatever you’re into, you should be able to find it on the website.

Ordering an Escort on Private Delights

After you poked around on the site a bit, you’ll probably find someone you want to spend some time with. Once you’ve found her, you’ll just click on her profile where you will see her stats, such as her body type, age, location, nationality, and what she’s willing to do, such as BDSM or sensual massage, for example.

You’ll also see the rates for her services listed, including for an incall or outcall appointment, and the types of payment she accepts. Most of the women on Private Delights accept PayPal, Apple Pay, Bitcoin, Venmo, and cash, but make sure you confirm with her what she prefers before you two get started.

Finally, when you click on an escort’s profile you can also see the reviews that have been left by her other Johns. If you decide to leave a review for your escort afterward, make sure you don’t leave anything revealing or obscene. Keep things generic and vanilla just to protect yourself, if you know what I mean.

Concluding Thoughts on Private Delights

It’s no real secret that I’m not using escort sites to get laid, I prefer not paying for sex, but that’s just my thing. If you’re the type of person that is ok with using escorts and prostitutes, then Private Delights may be something you want to give a try. It’s quick, easy, and the women seem to be real and legit, which is exactly what you want when you decide to give a site like Private Delights a try.

Conclusion

My final words of advice on using escort sites (particularly PrivateDelights.com) is to be careful, use protection, and think with the correct brain. Don’t let the one in your pants get you into trouble, an hour of sex is not worth getting hurt, getting sick, or getting arrested. Now, go out there and have yourself a good time with whoever is the right person for you. You’d be a fool not to start here on any of these free sites that I’ve ranked.

Suggested reading: My Escort Guide

June 14, 2019 by Frankie Moretti Leave a Comment

Fetlife Review: I Got A Login To This Fetish Dating App…

What’s your fetish? What gets your blood racing and your brain just ready to explode when you think about doing it in the bedroom? There has to be something, everyone has one or two things. Most people do at least and I’m a crazy nut that loves doing out of the ordinary stuff in the bedroom.

If you’re someone that enjoys things a little more different sexually, you’ve probably wondered if you’re the only weirdo out there, or if there are more of you looking to get together. (I’m totally kidding. You’re not weird. Well, you, yeah you in the back might be a touch weird, but the rest of you, ya’ll are very normal…LOL)

There is nothing wrong with having a fetish, as long as these things aren’t illegal (you know what I’m talking about), and everyone who is involved in exploring your fetishes is in agreement about what’s going to occur.

Fetlife.com is probably the biggest and most well-known fetish site on the internet. While not a traditional dating site per se, Fetlife.com aims to create a community for people to share their fetishes, explore new options, and connect with others who think like them. This sounds all well and good, but does Fetlife.com really deliver?

Keep reading to find out why I think Fetlife.com is worth your time if you’re a kinkster.

FetLife.com homepage

My Review of Fetlife.com

I’ll kick things off by sharing all the positive things that I like about Fetlife…

Positives of Fetlife

I spent a lot of time on Fetlife.com to really get into the trenches and to learn all about this community. Plus, I wanted to explore a little thing that kind of gets me riled up. But, that’s none of your business!

I found that there are many positives to joining up on Fetlife.com. The first thing I liked was that it was super easy to join. The only thing I had to do was answer a few simple questions about my nickname, my gender, sexual orientation, sexual role, birthday, location, email, and password. Some dating sites go overboard with what you need to join, but luckily with Fetlife.com I didn’t need to put in the name of my kindergarten teacher, my blood type, or the name of my firstborn.

A great thing about Fetlife.com is that once you’ve got all that info entered, you verify that you’re who you say you are by a text message code. Fetlife.com does this to weed out the bots, which means the people you’re talking are all real, no obnoxious fakes. Once you’ve entered that code, you’re ready to start a profile.

Making a profile on Fetlife.com is simple as well. Simply add in whatever information you feel safe sharing. You will need some sort of profile to join the groups and discussion boards of Fetlife.com, so do spend a little time on that.

The groups and discussion boards on Fetlife.com are amazing, especially if you’ve got a fetish you don’t share with many others. Chances are, whatever fetish you have, you’re going to find someone on Fet Life that shares it, especially in their huge user base. Oh, and everyone on Fetlife.com is very accepting, so gay, straight, man, woman, something else entirely, they’re going to accept you there.

Truthfully, Fetlife.com is probably one of the most accepting and friendly sites I’ve ever used. If you’ve ever been burned on another dating site by nasty people, consider Fetlife.com.

Now, here is a huge bonus of Fetlife.com that I know I truly appreciated. 90% of the site features are completely free. Let me say that again: Fetlife.com is almost free. If you’re tired of using dating sites that charge you just for looking in their general direction, you’ll be pleasantly surprised with this policy.

The only paid part of Fetlife.com is if you want to watch videos or save content, which is pretty affordable at around $5 a month to start. Friends, if you can’t afford that, you can still have fun on Fetlife.com, so don’t let that dissuade you from joining.

Some other things I really like about Fetlife.com include:

Facebook-like feed
Safe and secure to use
Very little advertising
Wide variety of fetishes available
Management of the site keeps everything legal and safe
Will not sell your information to a third-party or release it to the law unless court ordered to do so

Fetlife.com Negatives

I hesitated to call this section “Fetlife.com Negatives,” because these are such minor issues that I honestly wouldn’t let them bother you from joining. However, in an attempt to be completely open, I decided to give you the things that I didn’t like about Fetlife.com.

First, Fetlife.com has a very dated look to it. I don’t know that it has changed much in the years its been in operation and while some people hate change, a newer look might do the site a little justice.

Secondly, if you’re looking to use Fetlife.com as a dating site, you’re probably going to be a touch disappointed. See, there are no matching algorithms like sites Tinder or Match.com. This a community, not a matchmaking service.

This doesn’t mean you can’t find dates on Fet Life, you absolutely can. You just have to do the legwork, the site isn’t going to do it for you. So, I guess Fetlife.com is sort of like a bar, you go there, you meet people, and you ask them to come back to your place to spank you while you’re wearing an ex-girlfriend’s panties and crying and hope they don’t pour a drink on your head.

Oh wait, is that just me? (Again, kidding!)

I really did try to find other negatives to Fetlife.com, but guys, there just isn’t anything else I didn’t like.

Final Thoughts on Fetlife.com

I am not usually a gusher (Gross, not like that), but everything about Fetlife.com is awesome. Remember, if you’re looking for a traditional dating site, you’re in the wrong place. But, if you’re someone that has a fetish or two that you enjoy, or you’re looking to explore in a completely safe, and mostly free place, Fetlife.com will be the place for you.

Oh, and if you’re looking to spank a crying guy in lacy undies, you might just find me there. Wink, wink!

Join Fetlife today ~ Click Here!

Want more options? No problem, give this list of apps a shot and you’ll do just fine, I’m sure of it.

April 30, 2019 by Frankie Moretti 3 Comments

How To Meet Your Rich Sugar Momma

If you’re a young guy that likes women who are still seeking some fun, yet they might be old or older, and they got some money, then it’s a sugar momma that you need! Seriously, if you’re a man looking for a well-off woman to take care of things for you, trust me when I say that you’re not alone!

I’ve been searching for my official millionaire momma for years or at least the one I want to finally settle down with, lol.

For men who are less-than-rich, meeting a financial powerhouse who can satisfy your sexual urges (and bills as well) can absolutely change your life for the better. You’ll be able to do things like fly to exotic locations & drive fast cars, all while simultaneously have a casual sex partner to live out your fantasies with. And don’t forget, it’s all being given to you by a hot, wealthy woman who loves nothing more than taking care of you!

How To Find The Perfect Sugar Momma

Even though the sugar momma trend has grown a lot over the past few years, it can still be pretty tricky finding a woman to take care of you if you haven’t got an idea of where to look. Another challenge for the less-familiar is keeping a sugar momma around once you’ve “gotten” them in the first place. If you think she’s going to want to give you all of this sex and wealth without asking for anything in return, you are sadly mistaken. Why even start a relationship like this if you aren’t concerned with keeping them in your lives?

This Is The Year Of The Sugar Momma

In the modern era, women in the United States are experiencing a series of revolutions in the professional, political, and social spheres. Because of these growing socio-political changes, there’s a newfound sense of freedom that goes along with newfound wealth & political power.

Basically, you’ve got more rich, powerful women realizing that they can call the shots in their romantic lives. And (no surprise here), when an older woman realizes that she can have whatever she wants, she does what a lot of older men & women would do: find a hot young stud.

Official Definition

Before going any further, we should probably start with outlining what a sugar momma is. Often these women can be mistaken for cougars, but the truth is that these two things are entirely different. A sugar momma is looking to trade financial support for sex and companionship.

Usually, these women are going to go for significantly younger men, which tends to be why they’re lumped into the cougar category. But the truth is that cougars and sugar mommas are alike only in that they tend to be older women going after younger men.

A great way to tell if you’re dating a sugar momma is to find out exactly how established they are in their careers. Often times, sugar mommas hold real positions of power in their place of work, and getting an inside look into these types of situations can be a great identifier.

Places To Meet

So, if you’re on the lookout for a sugar momma of your own, there are few great places you can hang around in and try to pick them up. I’m going to kick things off by saying that there are a few cities that seem to house more of these rich older ladies than others.

Let me go ahead and just suggest that you spend time in a few places like South Florida, San Diego, New York City (my city), and Chicago. You’ll meet tons of rich women if you reside in any of those areas. Now, these places tend to be where wealthy older women like to hang out:

Casinos – It’s not much of a secret that older women with money to burn like to do it these types of establishments. Grab a cup of quarters, and find the women with the best-looking business suit.
Auctions – Another great way for wealthy folks to spend their money is at charity auctions. Keep your eyes peeled for the high female bidders, and try to strike up a conversation.
Boat & Yacht Clubs – Many semi-retired sugar mommas enjoy the boat life, so why not get out on the waves with them? Maybe throw on a captain’s hat to really impress them!
Jewelers / High-End Malls – This last one should be a no brainer. You don’t need the woman to be a sugar momma to want to spend her money on jewelry, but chances are, once they’ve gotten a taste of the sweet life, they’ll want the perks that come with it (namely an energetic young buck)!

Places On The World Wide Web

If you’re not completely comfortable finding a sugar momma in real life, you can also try one of the many websites devotes to connecting older women & younger men. What I personally like to do is sign up for multiple sites at once, to try and have as many chances as possible of finding a new connection. A great part of looking on these types of sites is that you don’t have to be concerned about mixed signals, as these women know exactly what they’re looking for.

Get ‘Em & Keep ‘Em

This may potentially be the hardest part of being the male partner to a sugar momma: keeping her. These women are looking for a strange blend of youthfulness and maturity, which can sometimes be a hard middle ground to hit. She’s looking for a man who makes her feel young & carefree, but she also doesn’t want someone who’s going to leave a mess & the kitchen or act a fool out at the clubs.

The key here is knowing when to shut your mouth and sit down. Older women love it when they’re younger beau has the wherewithal to handle social situations & settings correctly. If you aren’t sure about something, better to take a moment away and Google whatever etiquette questions you might have. Your brand new sugar momma doesn’t need to know that her new man is, well, new.

What To Remember

If you really want to find land yourself in a situation like the one I’ve described above, remember that you’re going to have to put down things like video games and pick up things like VIP bottle service and late nights out clubbing. A woman in her early fifties probably isn’t going to want to stay up until 3 am watching you play Call of Duty.

Also, as I said above, chances are if you meet up with a woman over forty, they’re going to be reveling in (often) the peak levels of their sexuality. Besides keeping your attitude in check, you’re going to have to accept that this is a physical relationship, first & foremost. If that’s a fact you’re comfortable with, you should have no problem settling into a situation like this.

What’s the alternative you ask? Well, I guess it’s having negative cash flow and hiring someone to have sex with you, something I don’t condone in the NY area.

Just make the right moves and you’ll be all set. Trust me on this one, give it a shot and see what happens.