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Best Sex Clubs NYC (My Top 8 List)

Living in New York City can be exciting. I’m talking exceptionally exciting beyond your wildest dreams. One of the reasons that I say that is because of the crazy sex clubs located throughout the city. I’m somewhat of a connoisseur you could say and a frequent flyer so to speak.

Whether you’re looking for a sex club, sex party, swingers club, or just an adult club that caters to the sexually open individual, this information below should help.

If you’re living in NYC or if you’re simply spending some time on business or vacation, then you might want to venture over to the dark side of the city. You’ll certainly love what you see, I can guarantee that without a doubt.

Below you will find a rundown of the most popular sex clubs in the city and most importantly, why I suggest checking them out. One thing you need to consider is the fact that I’ve got two typical approaches when it comes to these sex clubs. I either a) bring someone along that I’ve met on any of the adult dating apps I use or b) I meet someone there and bring them back to my place for some nookie.

Think of this as my personal version of the website but just focusing on New York City.

New York City Sex Clubs

The Best Sex Clubs In NYC – My Personal Favorites

Now, before I get started, you’re probably wondering what I consider to be a sex club. Well, in my humble opinion, any place that’s a club and where you can get laid or at least receive oral sex is what I’d consider a down and dirty underground sex club.

If you haven’t explored any of these locations, then you need to do so, pronto!

Killing Kittens

This club is a members-only establishment that hosts a bunch of different types of parties. The party themes range anywhere from sex to sex-themed, and even hedonism.

The parties that Killing Kittens throws are not nut parties, they’re clothed but they do take things up a notch at times at the mansions they rent out for the weekend. There’s no way you’re getting into this club without applying.

Sex Hacking Playlab

This is an interesting sex club concept which operates as an educational lab with a fun twist. They do everything here from teaching people how to find the g-spot to helping women squirt everywhere to condom application and more.

They teach sex “hacks” for the people that like to learn and bang all the same. If you’re into learning with your hands, then this is for you!

Lip Service

The Lip Service club is an interesting one, to say the least. These sex parties are literally a staple of New York City and it all goes down at the House of Scorpio Brooklyn loft. People get together and they play games, consume tasty cocktails, and kiss like crazy. This party is very interesting because it’s a pansexual party. You’ll need a blindfold to play the game. Be ready for some weird fun.


If you’re single, then the Intimate sex party is right up your alley. The sex parties typically take place with a maximum of 40 attendees.

There’s drinks, sex-related conversations, and a play area if you know what I mean. Be ready to talk about all the kinky fetishes and sex toys that you like using. Oh, and be ready to use them too!

Bowery Bliss

The original swingers and sex club of NYC, Bowery Bliss is a no frills, no bullshit type of club. It’s a club that’s pretty much open to any and all couples interested in partaking in the fun. Lots of people swap partners and some even go home in a group of people. What’s more fun than going home with a couple ready to bang? Uh, nothing that I can think of!


The NSFW sex club is a club in New York City that’s been created to cater to those who are fans of eroticism and cannabis. It’s a sexual wellness club where you can enjoy some BDSM fun at the KinkLab, fantasy fun at PlayDate, and some cannabis at Dankquet. NSFW is the latest and greatest in terms of sex education and clubbing strictly for adults. Check this one out here on their site as it’s my new favorite of them all.

Peyton’s Gentleman’s Club

While this one isn’t a sex club, there’s plenty of sex-related activity taking place here for me to list it. This is exactly what you think it is, a strip club where you go to watch girls get naked. You’ll get the occasional lap dance and maybe something more if you play your cards right.

The club is located in Brooklyn and it’s filled with super hot women. This is the best spot to go to if you want to traditional NYC strip club experience.


I love this club not only because it’s got the same name as my favorite childhood movie but because it’s the 50 Shades of Gray type club. The place is classy, elegant, filled with swingers and the patrons that participate in the events are in their mid-30s.

As you know, I love a hot milf in her mid-30s, so this is right up my alley.


Well, there are plenty of other sex clubs that you can consider going to if you’re in New York City. Far better choices for sexual encounters versus the backpage nonsense. However, these are the best in my opinion. I’m open to other suggestions and if you’ve been to one that’s top notch and not listed, please let me know!

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Frankie Moretti is an Italian investment banker who's a go-getter with an eye for staying ahead of trends. He's a sucker for hot women, data, fine wine and likes to take things to the extreme in all aspects of life. His motto is, "Life is like the Stock Market indices, make the right moves and you'll see more peaks!"