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If you’re reading this article, then you’re either into hooking up with random women, you live in New York, or you’re just a lunatic like me. The popular swinging website SwingLifeStyle, also commonly referred to as SLS, has been running strong since the early 2000s. Its offerings range from menage a trois, wife swaps, three or more simultaneous partner-type situations, and an array of other ways to get together with like-minded individuals. And while SLS hasn’t always boasted the largest user base, it has consistently maintained around 6,000 users a year, most of which are quite active on the site.
The site sees roughly 8,000 new members a month, but bear in mind that these users tend to leave the site shortly after that. They either opt for the “insta” style site that’s massive versus tight communities like this or they go for something more traditional.
Full disclosure: It’s not like my go-to sex dating app but it’s pretty solid.
Due to the delicate subject matter present on the site, SLS only requires basic personal stats like age, email address, and what type of connection you’re looking for. There’s a separate link for individuals who’d like to stay off of the main servers (something I think is a nice touch) at the link found here. Click the button to join, and you will be sent to the main splash page.
You’ll have already obtained your swinger lifestyle login and you’re likely ready to hit the ground running. Once you’ve finished putting together your baseline profile, you’ll be able to start messaging with others….or so you might think. Unfortunately, without a paid membership to this site, you can only see when someone has messaged you.
These messages appear like a typical instant message, but when you attempt to hit the chat button, an additional popup warns that without money upfront, you won’t be reaching out to any fellow swingers any time soon. This means that potential matches may assume you’re uninterested and give up (unless the match happens to be a paid user). In this case, they are given the option to open up communication, if they so choose.
Another batch of features strictly for paying guests, upgraded member profiles provide a huge leap forward in terms of SwingLifeStyle’s functionality. You can start conversations right away, which is a huge benefit (and a baseline component of the site’s functionality).
You’ll also be given access to the complete set of images on user profiles. Free members are stuck viewing only the “PG” photos, with nude photos being wholly blurred out.
While you might be frustrated at the choice to bar free users from seeing nudes, consider the following; Hackers, scammers, and bots all tend to use free profiles to do things like steal personal information, which can often include personal images. I think this is the right approach, and urge you to keep it in mind while perusing all that SwingLifeStyle has to offer.
SwingLifeStyle has kept the user interface relatively simple, with a floating control bar kept to the left. The site navigation is relatively straightforward, with links to either your free or subscription-based options. The messaging app is pretty well designed, and I had no trouble making sure my messages were read, as well as seeing any incoming requests that I might get. I will say, however, that the control scheme looks very 1999. SwingLifeStyle would do well to give their look an overhaul.
So, as is commonly done on most pay-to-play sites, discounts are offered dependant on the length of time you’re looking to “swing around.” A single month runs $14.95, while a 3-month stint comes in at $9.98 per month.
If you’re the type to slowly explore sites like this and you’d like to take your time, you can purchase either a 6-month plan at $8.33 a month, or a year’s worth at just $5.83 billed monthly. Any of these choices will open up the full range of SwingLifeStyle’s offerings, so feel free to try a month first and see what you think.
P.S. – There’s also a lifetime membership offered at just $149.95. This isn’t something very commonly offered by sites like SwingLifeStyle, and what it says to me is that they’re a company willing to invest in its core group of users.
So I’ve already covered how paying for SLS’s membership opens up messaging and images, but there’s a slew of features that are specific to the site, and make your money well spent.
The first of these is called “Hot Date.” This is more or less a simplified version of many popular online calendar apps, except built primarily to advertise when you’re free to meet. If you tend to be the type of guy or gal that likes meeting someone new right away, the Hot Date function gives other users a chance to see your schedule right away and make plans that can often be same-day. You can also tie these calendars to other users, making group experiences even easier to put together.
Next up is something called Swinger Clubs. This is almost exactly what it sounds like, an online resource where you can browse local swinging clubs. These tend to be updated quite regularly and makes jumping into the group scenes a breeze for residents new to the area. Honestly, I hit this type of sex club in New York all the time.
The last one I’m going to mention here is something called Travel. As the name implies, it relates to getting where you need to be to make that new connection happen. However, instead of just offering links to third-party sites, SwingLifeStyle instead decided to create its own travel organization, Topless Travel. Here you can browse listings for swinger boat trips, 10-day resort excursions, and even fully stocked cruise ship getaways!
I am firmly impressed by what SwingLifeStyle offers here. Very few websites that I’ve reviewed prior haven’t come close to providing such a high degree of service.
You probably won’t be surprised by what I’m about to tell you, but I fully, wholeheartedly endorse Swinger LifeStyle as a website for meeting group partners. As it stands, it provides an almost unmatched resource for individuals who are into group eroticism, but beyond that fact, it provides a slew of additional perks. Yes, I know what you’re probably thinking, that these perks are only offered hen paid for.
While that’s certainly true, this may be one of the few times that I tell you to go for it. SwingLifeStyle provides a heck of a product at a really affordable price point. When you consider this, along with the option to purchase a full lifetime membership, I think you’ll agree with me.
Most people think I’m crazy for even using these apps, but I think it’s a genius move on my part. Not to toot my own horn or anything but I get laid quite a bit these days. For the most part, it has everything to do with the sex dating apps that I use almost every single day.
If I’m not logging into one of these apps, I’m using the applicable networks via the desktop version (which are one and the same).
Rather than put you to sleep and continue talking about myself, I figured an alternative would be to give you a rundown of the mobile apps that I use and why I’ve chosen to use each individual application.
Yes, it’s all to increase my chances of hooking up.
No, none of them are Tinder.
Here’s what you need to know if you’re on the hunt for someone and you want sex like yesterday.
I guess the first question to ask is, “Do you want to hook up?” If the answer is yes, then congratulations, you’ve just joined literally a billion people on this planet with the same motive, want, and need.
People don’t go to the local bar any more though. Instead, they use dating hook up apps. Gone are the days of logging into Match.com or ChristianMingle.com for the serious Catholic type.
Heck, the days of Tinder.com are slowing down as well. Not really but what I mean to say is that others are steadily climbing, grasping market share and making big strides within the sex dating community.
Forget everything you’ve heard to date thus far. Just read this list below and know that I only know what I know and I know how to get laid every day.
It’s: A sex network that’s been around for more than a decade and most notably known for helping millions of Americans have one night stands without anyone finding out.
Plan on: Finding a lot of people willing to have sex via video with a large portion of those people looking for face to face meetups and care-free sexual encounters.
The Trick: Premium members get better placement, better perks, better support, and they ultimately get laid more as well.
Summing It Up: Perhaps the most effective and notorious sex apps on the planet. It’s a network full of people looking for nothing but sex with someone local. A pioneer in the hookup dating niche and safer than all other options out there. Check out Fling right here.
It’s: The NSFW version of Snapchat. A new and improved version that allows consumers to send and receive nude snaps and selfies before meeting up with people to hook up in person.
Plan on: Running into a lot of Snapchat stars that want to safely explore their exotic and sensual side without worrying about being banned. Send snaps and save a kitty (by kitty I mean pussy cat).
The Trick: Have a solid bio and profile built out to entice users to want to connect with you.
Summing It Up: The average Snapchat user that likes explicit content versus that safe for work nonsense will love this app. They put the “SEX” in sext if you know what I mean. DMs will lead to dicking down.
It’s: The anti-Zuckerberg website that’s built to function exactly like Facebook but for sex. Mark Zuckerberg wishes he could get laid by some of these members, I can guarantee that it would be hard for anyone to turn down these girls, even him. Good news for Zuck is that he’s got a beautiful Asian wife and doesn’t need Fuckbook, but if he did, it would be there to use! They officially earned the name the Facebook of sex and it’s worn well, to say the least.
Plan on: Meeting local people to chat with online and eventually meet in person for drinks and perhaps a quickie in the restaurant bathroom. I personally take people our for a nice steak and a couple of drinks, but it’s not necessary.
The Trick: Send messages with substance, not just the hey – let’s bang message. Put 10 to 15 seconds into it and you’ll get a lot further. Also, be sure to like girls photos. Just like on Facebook, these women love getting attention.
Summing It Up: The original Fuckbook is an amazing app that no one can touch. There have been quite a few imposters, so be careful. The one listed here on my site is 100% the real deal. In fact, the original site rebranded as InstantHookups.com due to all the copycat issues. Try the original or bust – trust me.
It’s: The best-kept secret around in terms of direct messaging for quick same-day booty calls. The Instagram girls that have been booted off the Gram for being dirty birdies are officially on Instabang and yes, willing to bang.
Plan on: Spending most of your time scrolling through and search for local hotties willing to chat with you. When you find one, you’re going to level up and hookup for sure. Oh, you can also plan on getting your money back if you suck at chatting with girls and flirting. They’ve got a money-back guarantee that you just can’t pass up.
The Trick: You must compliment and be active while on the go with this sex dating app. Most of them require effort but this one really requires it and doing so will 10x your results – I promise. You can also plan on all the people connecting with you being real. It’s one of the few sex apps out there that don’t use fake profiles.
Summing It Up: Instabang.com takes some getting used to with all the awesome features but you’ll get it soon enough. Having said that, I can’t think of a better way to meet and mingle with someone online aside from doing it in a network where people go in hopes of hooking up. Clearly a no-brainer without a doubt. #BOOM Don’t just dive right in just yet. Check out my full Instabang review then pull the trigger.
I know you’re probably wondering why I didn’t mention Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Down, Pure, and every other sex dating app that you can easily access from your phone. Well, truth be told, those mentioned above work best for me and that’s why I shared them with you. If you can’t get laid using those apps above, then you’re not going to get laid in a house full of hoes with a fist full of money.
In the world of dating, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. Thanks to a new dating app consultant, you can spend your hard earned money on someone who will make your profile stand out among the crowd. Yep, it’s true. We’ve reached a point in time where people are outsourcing their profile creation.
Anyone who uses dating apps like Tinder or Bumble should pay attention, because it’s the little things that get people to swipe right these days. Since 2015, Meredith Golden has been helping people with their dating profiles. She made a post on Facebook offering to help friends and the former psychotherapist and at home Mom saw this little gig turn into a full blown venture. Her website is SpoonMeetSpoon.com, and her fees fetch as much as $2,000 monthly!
I’m all for being perfect, like the late Curt Henning, aka “Mr. Perfect.” However, you won’t see this nut of a person paying that much for a profile upgrade. She’s crazy if she thinks a savant like me, a serial dater, if you will, would pay that sort of a fee to get my profile up to her caliber.
But then again, there are suckers born every day, and some people simply don’t have the “A game” I bring to the table, day in, and day out.
I should re-iterate that the $2,000 fee is the most expensive package she offers, and not only does it include the perfect dating profile, but it also offers you the chance to have Golden swipe and chat with your matches. You simply show up for the dates she lines up for you. It’s that simple.
Golden starts off with a 20 minute questionnaire to get to know the client’s voice and demeanor. This way, she’s armed with enough info to replicate the tone and conversation when she chats with anyone they are matched up with.
She charges $300 for a dating profile package, and $600 for a “Dating Diagnosis” that shows you where you are making errors in your conversations.
Zack Guzman of Yahoo! Finance let her check out his profile so he could sample her services.
Guzman gave her the power to take over his Bumble profile and sent her a bunch of photo options she could pick and choose from. They went back and forth over the re-set, and his profile was completed and he felt it was very similar to what he initially began with.
After the profile reset, she advised him to stay away from Bumble on the weekends, which was weird to me. Like the gym, I subscribe to the #nodays off policy when it comes to swiping away for women I want to meet and fuck. But hey, I’m a savage and I do things my way. Her logic is that you don’t want to look like you don’t have anything to do on the weekends.
My rebuttal to that is, people don’t care. They are always on the phone. If I’m in an Uber or Lyft, I am swiping. If I’m waiting on someone, I’m swiping. Swipe or die, that’s the way I see it. You pay for the apps for a reason, you know?
Am I not going to hook up with a woman or think any less of her because she swiped me on a Saturday Night? Hell no. In fact, nine times out of ten you never find out when they actually swiped, so I am totally against her logic there.
Maybe I start my own swipe consulting service?
Golden’s other advice to Guzman was:
I agree with these, just for the record.
Guzman went on to report his results:
He asked friends to choose the before or after profile. He had gathered differing opinions on this. He then continues to say that like beauty, the perfect dating profile lies in the eye of the beholder. I tend to agree with him. People are going to swipe if they are:
That said, save your money on the consultant, and if you want to get down and dirty, join an adult sex app. You can thank me later.
I’m a little nutty by nature and yes, I was once crazy enough to try and hit up every IG model I came in contact with. However, that’s changed in recent years. See, Instagram models are everywhere and although they’re nice to look at they aren’t the best to date. I like to consider myself an Instagram connoisseur. In other words, I peep on IG girls 24/7. Why do these instababes get all the attention? Well, let’s face it, they run the Internet. There is 100% no denying the fact that these females parading around IG with skimpy outfits, thongs, and more are marketing gurus. They’re geniuses in that respect.
If you’re thinking of attempting to connect at a more intimate level with that Instagram model that has 200K followers, then you should read this. It’s simply a warning of caution, nothing more and I need you to know that these women are everything to me because I love looking at them.
Before jumping the gun and shooting her the direct messages (DM) you need to face the facts and know what you’re getting into. It might not be a great idea. These reasons listed below explain why you shouldn’t bother trying to date these social media models.
Here are all the main reasons why I suggest NOT trying to date models posting on social media. Some of these are going to be obvious, but not all of them. At any rate, here’s what you need to know about this.
Seriously, if you’re not honest with yourself, then you’re a complete liar. There’s not a chance in hell that you’re her type. My guess is that this IG model has a very specific type of person she’s looking for and poo poo for you, it’s not what you’ve got to offer.
Don’t waste your time trying to reel her in, because it’s not going to happen.
Did you think you were the only one out there trying to hit it? Nah man! What are you a knucklehead? Get in line and pack lunch and dinner because it’s a long one. This girl typically has thousands of guys trying to pull her in. Most of these guys are titty fuck shit bags that have nothing to offer, but never the less, it can be a major wall to climb.
There are hundreds of Insta models that literally don’t work. They’ve never worked a day in their life and they spend most of their time on vacation. If you think she’s going to hang around while you work your ass off, you’re dead wrong. Guess what? She’s going to be on a boat for a month with other hoes (maybe even with girls getting paid to play if you know what I mean, who the hell knows). Yes, boats and hoes – I said it.
Most of these social media models care about one thing – likes and more likes. You’re second in line if you’re lucky. Now, if you’re not promoting her on Insta and Snpachat, then you done messed up fam! LOL, she will go full psycho on you if you don’t commit to dropping everything and putting her social media account number one.
No way in hell you’re going to get more time than her phone. The phone is the lifeline and without it, she literally can’t breathe. Don’t ever think that you come first because you don’t and you won’t. Simple as that my friend.
I can confirm that every single Instagram model promotes something. If they’re not promoting themselves, then they are promoting something else. You’re going to have to deal with the promoting nonsense and the fact that she’s exhausted from “working” so she just can’t find the energy to meet up with you.
Thinking about dating a social media babe? Well, plan on renting private jets, dining at the finest restaurants, and buying the nicest purses because anything short of that and you’re kicked to the curb. Most of these girls think nothing of spending your money and when it runs out, so will they.
If you plan on dating these girls, then you’re essentially going to turn into a professional photographer. Well, what I mean is that you’ll be asked to snap more pics for social media than doing anything else. It’s literally an exhausting task and again, the photos mean more to her than you.
If that doesn’t convince you to want to stay far away from Instagram models, then I don’t know what will. They’re hot to look at, yes. But do yourself a favor and keep it that way only.
Thank me later.
P.S. If you’re looking to meet girls like these Instagram models but without the drama and work involved, then give this a shot. It’s bound to work ten times better than creeping on IG girls via DM.
I’ll end on a good note. Please understand that I’m not telling you to stop checking out these hot girls on social media. Just don’t try and date them.
I’ve seen some extremely weird stuff over the years. When it comes to dating, nothing surprises me today. I’m not joking, literally nothing at all surprises me. Even the weirdest dating sites in the world don’t shock me. The thing that does though is that people out there actually join them. You’re never going to hook up on these sites and if you do, bless you. Do yourself a solid and read this list, understand what they are and kick yourself square in the dick if you even think about joining them. I’d rather you hire some hooker or tug it thinking about banging your hot school teacher. Trust me, anything is better than actually registering on these sites.
These sites are as weird as it gets and if you’re a member of any of them, I hope to god no one knows! Check out these beauties…
This site is called clowndating.com and it creeps me the heck out. People have unhealthy obsessions with clowns and it scares the living shit out of me. If you’re that much into clowns, then you need to watch the movie Devils Rejects by Rob Zombie, you won’t like them after that. I can’t think of anything worse than having sex with some girl dressed up as a clown. It makes me soft just thinking about it.
You people and your food allergies are ruining this world. This looks more like the bad start of a cult versus anything else. Aside from the site looking like a piece of crap, I think that dating someone because you’re allergic to the same foods is crazy. Look at the couples on the cover page of the site, they look weirder than my Uncle Jerry and he’s a strange cat. Do you know what the couple cooking on the homepage says to me? Hey, we are really boring and can only eat egg whites or we’ll die. This is awesome we met, we’re cooking! Doesn’t get more bullshit than that.
Awesome! Let’s each take dumps in our diapers and change on another. Hey, maybe we’ll use extra baby powder this time. The scary part is that this site has 42,000 members according to the site. Yes, you read that right! If you’re looking for a diaper mate then don’t call me. I’ll call the cops on your sick ass you freak!
Do you prefer to sweat profusely while trying to eat that reaper pepper with extra cheese on your nachos? If so, then you’re gross but good news for you, there’s light at the end of the tunnel to feed your hot sauce addiction. Hotsaucepassions.com is all about connecting you with other hot sauce lovers. Good luck fighting for the bathroom with all that diarrhea, just saying.
The premise behind this site is self-explanatory. You date someone because you like their pet, simple as that. If you ask me, pets are a pain in the ass in general. I’d prefer if my hook up partner didn’t have pets. It would make my life a lot easier and better odds that I won’t step in a steaming pile of dog shit. This site screams something simple to me, you should definitely date me and my pet because without my pet I totally suck!
This one sounds like a real toe jammin’ time! The what ifs here are incredible. What if their feet stink? What if they’re sporting a crazy hammer toe? Don’t even get me started on women with hairy toes. I think I’m going to vomit, that’s enough of that.
Perhaps the sketchiest of them all is the Inmate Mingle website. If you’re looking to help someone smuggle heroin into jail or perhaps hits of acid and be responsible for filling someone convicts canteen then this is perfect for you. Nothing like stereotyping with the black couple on the homepage. Good job! LOL
Who doesn’t love a site dedicated to fat bastards? I know some people are into BBW girls and I’m not knocking those that are. All I’m saying is that the conversation gets weird soon as you mention being a fat bastard member. Fair enough? That hairy guy wearing gold chains is a disgrace to all men. What a slob and a half.
Not your average Match.com I guess. Seriously, this reminds me of every trench coat wearing psychopath that I went to high school with. If you’re looking to get stabs in the neck with a sword, then this network might be the one for you I guess. If you’re looking for real dating sites that actually work and don’t creep millions of people out, check out this one here.
I’m not insanely rich, but I’m certainly not poor. That said, I have enough wealth to share my thoughts and insights into where the average wealthy man hangs out. I figured, since I write most of my articles for men, it’s only fair that I share some details and insight for women as well. This will help you connect with rich dudes or wealthy guys if that’s what you’re looking to do.
Whether you’re a well-off man who’s looking for a place to be around equally accomplished peers, or a woman who wants to be noticed by such men, it’s important to know the types of places wealthy men hang out.
Women who know where wealthy men hang out, know that it is not at a nightclub or a dive bar. They know, the well-off more often frequent the same types of places as other wealthy men, and they aren’t hard to find.
The first place to find wealthy men are at pubs and lounges near city offices. Wealthy men tend to have a serious work-life imbalance, and their entire existence revolves around their job. As a result, many of their happy hours happen right by their workplace.
If you want to find out where the lawyers and doctors hang out, you won’t have to go much farther than a few blocks away from the office. Be mindful at the times you should be at these places because these men often work long hours and don’t have time to unwind until the weekend.
One of the most reliable places to find wealthy men are at high-end luxury shopping centers. If you’re around a high-quality tailor or jewelry store, you are bound to come upon a well-off men on their leisure time.
Not all wealthy men appear that way by first look, but you can clearly see how wealthy someone is when you check out the type of bags their walking out of the store with. High end sporting goods stores that feature equipment for golf, sailing, tennis, and diving are also good places to find wealthy men killing some time.
Likewise, when you want to find these men truly hanging out, it’s often going to be at a golf or tennis club. These places often require membership fees and private access, so only men who are well off are able to be there.
This is where men often mix business and pleasure, and how ambitious and rich men bond and engage with each other outside of an office atmosphere. Wealthy men like these environments because they are exclusive and luxurious.
A lesser known place to find wealthy men are art galleries and auction houses. High-quality art is a past time of men with money, and you can find them in spades at auction houses.
They love to purchase exclusive art, attend galas and event where art is on display, and interact with people who have an appreciation for fine arts. This is a great place to find wealthy men hanging out and talking shop and is a typical lifestyle staple of men with means. I will say this, lots of crazy people buy art at insane prices. It’s something that rich people just like to do, including myself!
You can also find wealthy men at charity events and even luxury spa resorts. These are places where philanthropic men like to give back and kick back. The relaxing and exclusive atmosphere of these places demand a certain level of wealth, so you’re sure to find wealthy guys around if you find yourself there!
That’s all I’ve got for you. If you’re a rich dude, then hang out at these places if you want to meet women looking to connect with well-to-do men. If not, then don’t! The choice is ultimately yours. Good luck!
You’ve done all the early stage work of getting to know someone via the fling app or site, and piquing their interest and you’ve finally secured that first date. Few things are more nerve-wracking than a first date, because first impressions are everything. If you ruin this chance, you may not get another one. This is why you should avoid the typical lame Netflix and chill type first dates, and make sure you go out and do something that helps break the ice and showcase your personality.
That said, I’ve got some stellar first date ideas for you that will make this date one that just about everyone will remember. Trust me on that one!
Before you even get into what you’re doing, make sure you have the right mindset so that you are picking from the correct list of options. Is this a truly first-time deal where you’ve never spent a second with this person before? Or is this a situation in which you’ve already built a rapport and are trying to take things to the next level? Figuring this out will help dictate early on what type of date you should go on.
A general rule of thumb for a first date is doing something that is both affordable, casual and allows the two of you to have a conversation. Going to the movies on a first date is a bad idea because you’ll spend most of the time silent. Your first priority should be a venue in which you can do some face to face talking before you go out and experience something.
With these things in mind, one of the best first date ideas always starts with dinner. Try and go to a trendy spot that isn’t too fancy, but has a cool aesthetic and an exciting menu. There are plenty of dinner spots where the chef will put on a cool show, or they have a staple meal that’s both amazing to look at and eat. This will give you something to talk about, and the dinner will pace the early stage conversations.
Once you get that out of the way, one of the better choices is to do something that allows you to walk around and engage with your surroundings. A walk in a park is cool, but a walk through a museum is even better! Likewise, doing anything particularly scenic that involves water or a beautiful view, is often a great choice.
Another great idea which typically involves alcoholic drinks is also karaoke. It shows that you are loose and don’t take yourself too seriously, talking about taste in music is a great ice breaker, and it allows you to bond without having to talk so much. Likewise, any game themed date is a great idea. Hit an amusement park, check out some mini golf, or hit the arcade for some quick games.
If things are going well, you should pursue any ideas that involve creativity. There are lots of wine tastings that are paired with painting, pottery, and other artistic pursuits. Though it may be a bit pricier for a first date, you could also do something incredibly relaxing like hit a spa, take a breathtaking helicopter ride, or a smooth boat ride. All of these things are great ways to both break the ice and set the mood for hopefully many more dates to come!
Update: I recently had a friend pass away in a helicopter accident and I can no longer suggest that you take a helicopter ride unless the pilot is experienced and ready for all types of weather and flight issues.
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As one of the most highly sought after women around, many men fantasize about dating the stripper of their dreams. Trust me, there are more strip clubs in New York and New Jersey than I can even count. Needless to say, I’ve been to them all! If you ask me, there’s often nothing sexier than watching a powerful woman take over a room with her body.
Some of these exotic dancers are insanely talented and they mean business! If you’re planning on trying to date one, then you’ll want to read my article. I’ve covered all that you need to know and understand if you want a successful relationship with a stripper. Here are some pointers for you…
It’s a stripper’s job to get men to drool over them and fall in love at first sight, and because of this, most men don’t understand what they have to do to actually date a stripper. The reality is strippers are like most women: they want someone who is honest, understanding, and patient. If you’re dating a stripper, you have to have these qualities in spades.
Based on my personal experiences, they don’t trust men, in general, so they need that honesty and reassurance. Here are a few non-negotiable things you need to understand.
What you first must understand is that the first thing you need to do is respect their job. When you meet a stripper at a club, she’s currently at work. It’s her job to meet with all types of men throughout the night. So you’re best bet to get her attention is to pay for it.
Once she’s off stage, walk over and ask her how much for a private dance. The rate is usually per song, so what you’ll want to do is spend enough time to get both a dance and a conversation going. The longer you spend with her, the more likely you’ll have a chance to prove you’re worthy of seeing her outside of the club. Also, don’t assume that these girls are the same as those parading around Backpage or Listcrawler. They are not all escorts, especially those in the NYC area.
One of the common mistakes men make with strippers is telling them they shouldn’t work at the club. These women are working just like anyone else, and their lifestyle often affords them a level of freedom and flexibility that they enjoy. It could be demeaning to say that she is too good for the club or that you want her to quit.
Would you date someone who wanted you to quit your job as a prerequisite to a relationship? What most men fail to understand is that strippers are regular women. Dancing naked is a risqué job, but it is actually not that explicit when it comes to jobs that involve sex.
These girls are not always walking around scantily clad, and may not be the sexual freaks that you envision. If you’re able to navigate these specific pitfalls and get her actual number, this is a big step forward.
You have to understand that it’s possible that hundreds of men a month ask her for her number and proposition her for sex. What you want to do is establish that you respect her as a person and want to pursue a relationship that is more than just sexual.
Like any woman, the best way to date a stripper is to be honest and transparent about your intentions. Be respectful of her identity and don’t try and control her, and don’t place expectations on her just because of her job.
Since strippers are always around men with money, be mindful that you may have to maintain a certain lifestyle to interest her in the first place, and you may have to frequent the strip club more than once to get her attention. Overall, approach a stripper like you would any woman, but just have more sensitivity for what her workplace lifestyle entails.
Well, that’s all I’ve got to say about dating a stripper. I just might be one of the most exciting relationships that you’ve ever been in if you’re able to rope one in. However, be prepared for what I’ve mentioned or you’ll be in for it. Either that or it will not be long-lived. Don’t worry, there’s always those economical hookup sites that I’ve been recommending which will for sure get you laid.
Oh, I’ll wrap things up with this video of Floyd Mayweather making it rain on a bunch of strippers after a TKO fight night win!
No sense in beating around the bush here. I’ll just come right out and say that I’m a pretty heavy drinker and seeing as though I’m a complete nut, you can only imagine how many drinks I toss back weekly. I can slug down Manhattans and Martinis with the best of them. One thing I’ve come to learn is that women love to drink tasty alcoholic drinks.
Fun Fact: Tasty drinks will help you have better dating experiences.
Alcohol has always been a classic go to when you’re trying to get your sexy lady or some random chick you meet online in the mood, but few people know that specific drinks are truly great as an aphrodisiac. The trick to enjoying a sexy drink that will get all the right juices flowing is a combination of ingredients, taste, and look. Not all of these cocktails have classic aphrodisiac components within them, but their name and look are sure to get the sparks flying.
And let’s face it, a few filthy blue cheese martinis will make any girl want to thumb a ride to pound town.
Here’s what I personally consider a great selection of drinks. They’re all great options for those looking to turn women on. As for the most popular types of drinks, according to an article covering an overview of alcoholic beverages, vodka, gin, rum, whiskey, and tequila are the most popular spirits purchased and consumed today. There’s a reason for that, obviously! You’ll find that many of the drinks below contain these spirits, so let’s toast to indulging in these cocktails and hooking up!
A perfect opener for the night, a sparkling ginger daisy is what you should have ready when you’re trying to break the ice. It’s delicious, refreshing, and the bubbly component of the Prosecco is sure to lighten the atmosphere and get your date feeling comfortable. As a gin based drink, it leaves a dry and cool feeling on the tongue, which helps get you to the next cocktail of the night.
For those who don’t want to go the gin route, a Brandy Alexander is an excellent choice. Featuring the classic aphrodisiac, chocolate, this creamy drink is both sweet and savory. The brandy provides an instant buzz that helps loosen inhibitions and opens up the mind.
Another great chocolate-based choice is a Cupid’s Kiss. It has an awesome name, features both chocolate and cherries, which are known aphrodisiacs, and is actually quite easy to make. Using a little cocoa powder to rim the glass provides an elegant and romantic presentation, and the smell of dark chocolate is unmatched in getting the ladies heart to flutter. If you’re date isn’t much of a hard liquor type, these are great options. It’s basically dessert, before you have you real dessert in the bedroom!
If you’re trying to take your relationship to the next level, a great call at the bar is to order up the Secret Crush. The name is a dead giveaway of your feelings, and the flavor profile of this drink is out of this world.
Though not containing classic aphrodisiac ingredients, this drink is bubbly and features luster dust, which provides an exotic and memorable presentation. It’s sweet and smooth, and is a perfect way to let your special lady know that you have feelings and that you want to explore further from an intimate perspective.
For those who want to avoid the barkeep atmosphere and impress your date when you’re back alone, the mayday martini should be your go to drink. It’s simple to make, is vodka based like many popular drinks with women, and features cinnamon and strawberry, which are legendary aphrodisiacs. This drink isn’t too sweet but still provides a nice kick, and it’s the perfect nightcap before you guys hit the bedroom.
If you want to get right to it, try out the classic oyster shooter. Oysters are historically one of the most effective aphrodisiacs known to man, and the presentation and ingenuity of this drink is sure to get that fire burning!
It’s simple to make, requiring only vodka, lemon juice, and Tabasco sauce, and the combination kicks in multiple endorphins that are known to promote sexual activity. All of these options are tried and true sexual elixirs that are ideal for setting the mood for all types of sex!
Okay, my buddy Larry let me in on a little secret. He’s a chiropractor living in New York City. I refer to him as Dr. Larry and he’s got a secret weapon that he pulls out during every casual meet up. It’s called Don Julio – read about all the different tequilas they make before trying them! Chilled shots of Don Julio Real make life better and they’re bound to help you hook up.
Well, that’s all you need to know, so either head to the liquor store or bar and start ordering these drinks for women. They’ll be super excited, I can guarantee it and you are bound to get laid as a result of doing so. Need to find a way to meet these women? No problem, head on over to the homepage, but before you do that please check out the article on dating girls from Backpage. That’ll stop you in your tracks, I’m positive on that.
Whether you’re living in New York City such as myself or if you’re living in the Midwest, you need to know what women want if you want to date successfully – be it casual or something more serious. I’ve done all I can to help you understand what women want today. If you’re smart enough to read this top to bottom, then you might actually get lucky…
Building and maintaining relationships is often the hardest thing anyone ever has to do in life. Finding someone you are compatible with, who you are able to grow and evolve with, is no easy task. The rules of love and lust are complicated, and men often are on the outside looking in when it comes to understanding how to navigate relationship dynamics (short term and long term).
There is no sure fire way to appeal to any one person, as everyone is different, but there are some basic relationship tenets that men should employ when trying to pursue the woman of their dreams.
Quite frankly, I don’t care if you think it’s the person of your dreams or just some quick fling. The same rules apply if you want to WIN. Here are a few of the most important things to keep in mind…
This covers everything important that you need to know, nuff said. I’ll kick things off with perhaps the most important thing…
No matter your approach, the first thing men should keep in mind when trying to discover what a women may want, is that respect and communication is key. Men are often clueless when it comes to the opposite sex because they don’t approach situations with basic respect.
This is why I’m constantly telling you to not just send random Snapchat messages or explicit DMs. You’ve got to think like a female to get one.
A woman wants a man that respects her as an individual before anything. Once a woman understands that you will maintain a certain level of respect, then you can move on to communicating in a more open fashion. If you want to know what a women wants, you should just ask her!
This initial stepping stone will help clear up many issues up front.
Likewise, women want a man that is honest and transparent in their communication. Anyone can be a smooth talker, I’m a perfect example of that to be honest, but when it comes down to it, a woman wants to know she can trust what she is being told.
Establishing this dynamic early on is crucial to building a more meaningful progressive relationship. Now, this easily applies to casual dating because you need to be able to speak with the person via chat, iMessage, video, whatever and you need to be honest about your intentions e.g. just hooking up.
Sounds cheesy right? I agree, but I’ve gotta say, being a New Yorker, I’ve got to communicate effectively or I’ll get no where. The dating pool is fierce and without communicating, you’re not going to be able to establish any type of of chemistry, PERIOD.
As you navigate the early stages of honest communication, then you can begin to discover if there is actual romantic chemistry. Men don’t always understand that a woman may like talking to you and being around you, while also not feeling any true romantic chemistry.
Generally speaking, women want a man that can make her laugh, can be a good listener, and is attentive in learning and understanding her interests. You can build chemistry over time even if the sparks are not there from the get go. Play the game right and you’ll succeed.
Have you heard of Seeking.com formally known as SeekingArrangement.com? This is a dating site that was created to connect men who have money with girls willing to exchange their time for money. They’ve put a monetary value on their time and many people do this not knowing that they’ve done so.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, even if a woman is immediately overcome with sexual chemistry with you, women find financial stability and emotional vulnerability to be very sexy. Financial stability shows that you are responsible, ambitious, and hardworking. Women love these traits in a man because they are good indicators for long-term success.
Women also love men who are not afraid to show their emotions. Show her that you aren’t afraid to sing a love song or tear up during an emotional movie. Sure, some will think you’re a loser, but if it’s only a fling or casual date, then who cares what they think. Bang them, then move on!
Ultimately, what women want in a man is someone who they can trust their emotions with, and as long as you move with transparency and honesty, you will find that you can build strong relationship dynamics with a woman who may not even appear to be your match on the surface.
After all, true love can’t always be explained and even if you’re not on the hunt for love, you should still attempt to apply the things that I’ve covered. I promise, doing so WILL HELP you hook up with more people on any dating network.
If you’re ready to join one, then my advice would be to try this one here and if you’re not quite ready, then do yourself a favor, read the rest of my articles. You’ll find the most recent on the homepage. Good luck and have at it!