I have strange conversations with my friends daily. One of the topics that recently came up was whether or not a tighter vagina was better and if it really made a difference. We got pretty deep here – pun intended. The conversation to a few weird spins but we hashed out a few things and came to a few conclusions.
Since we know women are constantly checking out our bulges (don’t lie) we thought why should you not have a private discussion on vagina tightness.
The very first thing that we did was start with Google to see what search suggestions came up. When search for “is a tight vagina” the other suggestions shown below are what populated.
You’ll notice that LOTS of people are talking about this, not just me and my buddies. Folks want to know if having “it” tighter is better. Here’s the scoop and what we dug up during our convo. Perhaps our findings might help you, perhaps they won’t. Regardless, you’ll have a tight grip on the subject.
Are you interested in getting to the bottom of this tight talk?
Great, let’s get down to business…
Is There A High Demand For Really Tight Vagina?
I’m a data guy and economist so supply and demand are all I think about. Is there truly an insane demand for extremely tight vaginas in the world today? Well, you’ve heard the old, “hot dog down a hallway” or “feeding a tick tack to a whale” analogies right? People today are constantly using those words to describe the female vagina which they feel is overly used, stretched out, or not to their liking.
For the men out there that think a narrower vagina is the answer to their prayers, think again. They’re wrong, dead wrong.
It’s not the narrowness that makes it feel tight but the muscles around the vagina that are responsible for this. They’re called the pelvic floor muscles. It’s not the strength of these muscles either but the motion of them while doing it that plays a role.
Think of it this way. When you have an erection, your penis gets hard and the muscle fills with blood flow. This same concept applies to the pelvic floor muscles when a female becomes sexually aroused.
Guys, listen up, if you think that a loose vagina comes from being overused or worked too much due to having too much sex, you’re 100% wrong.
Just Squeeze For Success? Nope.
People think that squeezing helps and that it is closely correlated with feeling pleasure. Guess what, all the publications out there sharing this information are wrong.
Sure, it plays a small role but without the perfect mixture of physical and emotional arousal, there will be less pleasure all around for all parties involved.
Is Too Tight Really Possible?
If you ask some of my friends out there, they’ll tell you that it’s impossible for a vagina to be too tight. Perhaps that’s because they’ve got small dicks and don’t know what they’re talking about.
The truth is that a vagina can be too tight. Both people having sex can be extremely uncomfortable if a vagina is too tight. Perhaps it has something to do with not being wet enough, uncontrollable constrictions while having sex and many other factors.
If you’re finding that there is a lot of physical discomfort between you and your partner while having sex, then stop – just STOP.
Changes Do Really Take Place
My buddies and I researched whether or not vaginas can change and sure enough, they can. Most people think that they only stretch out or get loose. Again, a completely false assumption, but the good news is that the vagina can change and it can not only become less tight but tighter as well.
Things like menopause, childbirth, kegel exercises, cosmetic surgery, tightening serums and more can impact the tightness of a vagina.
Most guys think that when a woman has vaginal rejuvenation that she’s going to feel tighter and better, but that’s not always the case and this study proves it.
Husband Stitches After Giving Birth
One of my friends is married with a kid and he started talking about this thing called the “Husband Stitch.” Husbands want a tight vagina right?
For those not aware, it’s an extra stitch of the act of making the vagina tighter after giving birth. This practice does exist and it might make your baby momma’s vagina tighter as a result of placing a few extra stitches in there. However, it can also backfire and make things too tight or even worse, get infected after surgery.
Don’t go asking the doctor to put a few extra stitches in there either, that’s just poor taste.
I guess the main conclusion that we came to was that loose or tight, spending too much time worrying about or thinking about a vagina being one way or the other is a waste of time. It opens up pandora’s box and that’s a box you don’t want to get inside.
The good news is that if you’re nervous that you’re inadequate or that the person you’re sleeping with is not a good fit for you, then you’ve got other options. I find that almost every woman I speak with via the dating apps that I use are completely open and honest about their bodies.
They’re only using these casual hookup apps because they want sex, not because they want to be examined by an insecure guy worried about the anatomy of the female genitalia. Join a casual site, meet someone looking to simply have fun and do just that. Leave the vagina tightness inspections at the front door.
Think if it this way, we’re only here for a short period of time, eventually, we end up with an obituary (hopefully like this one) and it doesn’t make sense to make fun of people or worry about things like tight and loose vaginas. Just have fun, experience life with people and live!
Special thanks to jamiemccartney.com for letting us use his vagina artwork in the featured section. It’s incredible!