One-night stands are just that, a one-and-done, no-strings-attached thing that everyone agrees is for pure pleasure. You get busy and your gal-pal for the night goes on her merry way. But, what if you’re kind of digging the girl you spent the evening with, but not quite enough to take it to relationship status? Then maybe it’s time to think about promoting that one-night stand into a regular thing: a booty call.
Booty Call Tips To 10x Your Life
A booty call is someone who you’re not dating, but you’re enjoying having sex with. You aren’t in a relationship, with the two of you, it’s just about hot times. This isn’t an easy thing to achieve, though, especially since women tend to get the “feelings cooties” pretty easily.
If you intend on changing your one-night stand to a booty call, you should follow a few rules to ensure it goes smoothly and everyone knows what the expectations are.
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Finding a Booty Call
Finding someone to have a booty call with can be tricky. First, you’re never going to want to hook up with a girl that is your friend. She is always going to be around and no matter how much you fight it, feelings can start working their way in.
Second, you don’t want to have a booty call be an ex-girlfriend. That is just keeping the door open for feelings and your past problems can rear their ugly heads and get in the way of having the type of relationship you’re looking for.
If you’re looking to find a booty call, I would seriously suggest you find someone who isn’t anyone you know. Hookup websites are a great way to find that perfect woman who knows what she’s getting into and isn’t going to have any preconceived notions of you or expect a relationship. There are hundreds, if not thousands, of hookup sites out there that you can use to find the perfect sexual partner.
Five Things Will Turn That One-Night Stand into a Booty Call
Finding a one-night stand is easy. The difficult part is convincing a free-spirited woman that you’re worthy enough to continue meeting. If you’re going to change that one-night stand into a booty call, you’re going to have to put in some work of your own.
Here are my five tips for getting that hookup to consider being your “anytime” booty call:
- Don’t talk about your sexual past – God, that is one of my pet peeves. N-o-b-o-d-y wants to hear about all the women you’ve banged or how hot an ex or hookup was and what you did with them. Don’t be that guy, seriously, you’re only going to chase her off.
- Don’t get the “feelings” – If you want a woman to run, start getting too clingy or talk about love. Any woman who was a hookup most likely did it because she isn’t looking for anything too serious and if you start that nonsense, she’s going to bolt for sure. Remember, this is supposed to be fun and exciting, not creepy or deep.
- Be good in the sack – Look, if you want someone to keep coming back to you, you have got to be good in bed. Listen to what she likes, do things that make her get off, and don’t be a gross, pushy jerk.
- If you’re only worried about yourself busting one off, you might as well stay home with your old buddy Leftie and let the girl get satisfied by a gentleman.
- Get better in bed – If you’re not comfortable in bed with a woman, or you notice that your new lady is into some new things, consider studying up on sexy stuff. Don’t worry about Kama Sutra-level positions, but sometimes just trying new things and keeping things fresh is all you need to do to entice someone into staying and enjoying their time with you.
- Pursue her – Do not wait for her to get back to you after the first time. Women like to feel like they’re being pursued and if you’re not going to show her any interest, I can guarantee you someone else out there will. It doesn’t take much effort; just show you’re wanting her and that you’re available.
Because I’m a caring guy, I want to give you some bonus info if you’re looking at getting a consistent booty call. You don’t have to follow any of my advice, but I’ve been around and know what works and what doesn’t, so I would really suggest you give these things a try.
One, don’t be a jerk. You don’t own this woman and she doesn’t owe you anything. If you want her to continue to be with you, you need to be respectful. She isn’t a prostitute, she’s just a woman looking to have a good time and doesn’t need you, they make toys for that.
Also, if she decides to end things at any point, let it go. This isn’t a relationship and you aren’t entitled to any discussions about why she wants to end it. If she wants to go, wish her the best.
Finally, if you’re going to have a booty call, I would strongly encourage you to not only get yourself tested for STI’s but ask her for some sort of proof for clean tests. Hey, you can never be too safe and if she gets offended, you don’t need her, there is plenty of booty out there that would be pleased to know you’re so conscientious. And, if you’re going to play around, please do so safely, you only get one life.
Having an NSA relationship is awesome when you can find a partner who is equally into it. As long as you pick someone who isn’t in your immediate inner circle, practice your sex craft, set boundaries and respect hers, and act like an emotionally mature adult, you are sure to have a very good time for as long as you both agree to keep your booty call relationship going.
Looking for more dating tips? I’ve covered quite a bit here on my site. Just keep looking around and you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for – I guarantee it.